Anonymous asked: Holy shit you are the biggest complainer I know. Friendship isn't a huge crazy phycological concept. People like other people and they become friends. We're not all alone, that would be very sad
Biggest complainer ?
I wrote once about something that bothers me and I have thoughts of and I get immediately attacked. They joys of tumblr, folks! This site is slowly starting to annoy me. Oh,see! More complaining! :)
Actually… friendship and human feelings are much more complex than just “People like other people and they become friends”. At least from what I have experienced. You must be pretty shallow to see things like that. Or a lucky one, since you see only the surface, not the depths of life which can be a pretty hard burden to carry.
We are alone. And life is sad. Especially today, in a modern, fast world where it is much harder to have some close humans than in the past times.
Haha !! This anon !!!! D: i mean if it would be so easy everyone had a giant amount of friends and would be lucky forever!!!
But friendship is hard work it is more absolutely more than liking each other !!! Friendship is also a human relationship and relationship means growing together , suffering together , crying together and helping each other, trusting each other and listen also if you are not so much interested in the problems the other one has! It has to do with being there and caring for someone …
It is hard work but if you met a person , who is worth it to go through all this you shouldn’t let him/her go!!!
I completely agree.
I’m not really one to divulge all my thoughts on Tumblr, but as I concur so passionately with this, I’ll make an exception…only yesterday evening I had a horrible argument with a close friend…the kind that erupts from you both being tired and stressed. The irrational, heated, absurd sort of argument that you can’t control, because it’s one person venting on another. He told me “we are done” as friends, and that I’m “off his radar”. What am I going to do?
I’m going to fight to show him how much I care. I’m going to restore the balance. Because I know our friendship is worth it. I know it’ll hurt, I know it’ll be tough, I know apparently friends don’t do this to each other…just a hunch perhaps, but I believe some people are worth it, especially the people who put you through the most pain. Yes, especially them because the mad ones are always worth saving. And real human healing forgiving love is rare. Once you feel it for somebody, you make sure you FEEL it. Friendship is not hanging out with people you barely know. It’s not Facebook, Twitter or whatever. It’s not even Tumblr. It’s a painful sack of shit at times. But no pain, no gain.